The first week was A's turn to choose an activity, and she was excited and specific. First, we would go and see a movie. Then we would come home and make people out of construction paper. Then I would sit in my rocking chair and they would sit on the floor and I would read them two stories.
Well, okay then.
On Saturday night before the big day, A very carefully chose and laid out her favourite clothes to wear the next day, and went to bed smiling and happy. It broke my heart! My poor unhappy child, were things this bad for her? (Have I mentioned I have a pessimistic streak?)
On Sunday morning, A, who normally sleeps in on weekends and has to be coaxed out of bed (and out of a foul temper) most mornings, was the first one up. She dressed herself, brushed her teeth and brushed her hair, then came and woke me up, eyes shining with happiness.
She enjoyed her day immensely. We saw Ice Age 4, made our paper people, and generally had a fun and relaxed day. I even enjoyed it myself.
The next week was M's choice. She chose to go to her favourite play centre, and then make a fairy garden at home (leaves, sticks, plastic container).
Last week was their friend's birthday party. So that was our Sunday Fun Day taken care of quite nicely.
Today was A's choice again, and she chose swimming, followed by more paper craft - this time making paper pizzas.
I so did not feel like going swimming. But the kids just love it, and it wears them out and makes me feel good that we all get some exercise. Also, because the girls are doing dancing classes and Greek school every week, I cancelled their swimming lessons this term so they wouldn't be completely over-scheduled, and they miss the swimming lessons. (You can't win. Well, I could if I cancelled Greek school but that's not really an option, sorry kids!)
Swimming was actually quite nice. The pool was heated to a lovely warm temperature and because it's not summer it wasn't all sauna-like inside. My lovely mother came along so we also got a lift. (Following the surgery to pin my broken arm two weeks ago, I still can't drive for another 6-8 weeks)
So we did that, and then it was home for paper pizzas.
After the pizzas, the girls decided to make a giant paper girl. I drew the outlines for the t-shirt and skirt, the zigzags for the sneakers and the ball, but the rest is their own work.
She started off a basketball player, then a cheerleader and finally a soccer player - hence the weird uniform.
I like to think these Sunday Fun Days are having an impact on my kids. A does seem happier, and we do all have fun. On the first week, inspired by this post, I also promised I would not look at my phone or laptop one single time, ALL DAY. I admit I didn't do this today as such, but I didn't use my phone much, and next Sunday I'll go back to not using it at all.
How do you spend "quality time" with your kids?
How do you manage special times in your busy life?