Oh, isn't it wonderful how imaginative and inventive
children are?
How, when you give them a toy, they don’t play with it the
*proper* way but find some other, funny, idiosyncratic and perfectly lovely way
to play with it instead?
And does this sometimes frustrate the crap out of you??
Have you ever caught yourself saying any of these things?:
“See, the little fireman goes in the little firetruck!”
“Ha ha, I don’t think the TIGER would sleep in the HOUSE!”
“See, this carriage should go in front because that’s the engine, and the caboose goes on the back.”
“Look, you can put the little teacups on top of the little saucers! That one’s actually a milk jug, so that goes there.”
“Oooh, look - this swing attaches to the back of the boat and then Polly Pocket can sit in it! No look – wait – let me – I’ll give it back – I’m just trying to show you…!”
When my kids were little and they got a new toy, I was
actually not always so quick to say these things, but I did sometimes, and I sometimes
had to almost restrain myself from plunging in and setting up the perfect
little play scenario… for me.
My sister and I have had this discussion. My nephew was
recently given a little wooden police station with garage, police car,
helicopter and helipad. Do you think he will ever sit the little helicopter on
top of the little helipad? He won’t let my sister do it either, and she has
tried to do it many a time, at first in front of him with explanations and
appeals to logic, and secondly behind his back. He is having none of it.
My girls share a wooden dollhouse which is kept in the
lounge [playroom] and when they were in bed I used to quite often [daily] “fix”
the furniture while they were asleep so everything was in its right room.
Then
I set the dolls up in various rooms so each was engaged in a logical scenario –
often wish-fulfillment ones for myself like watching television, sitting
together at a dinner table, or lying in bed. This went on for a fair amount of
time and I got a goodly amount of satisfaction from it… until finally I realised
that actually, I was playing with the dollhouse.
These days my girls are seven and they are very adept at
“scenario” toys. But they do still mix things up and of course it’s a good
thing, because (a) it just is and (b) I haven’t had to buy new doll accessories
as everything gets repurposed. Polly Pockets, Strawberry Shortcakes, Power
Rangers and My Little Ponies all share houses and furniture, while the Monster
High girls have taken over the old Barbie stuff now that Barbie is so uncool.
Though what I would really love to see is the Barbies,
Monster High girls and the La Dee Da dolls sometimes go on camping trips
together and use the ^&$%@#! Barbie camper vans which cost Santa a ^&$%@#! fortune
two Christmases ago. I've suggested it a few times but it’s not catching on. My
new evening activity, perhaps?
How to play with dollhouses: Barbie and Ricky video:
